Over the last few years of my life, I have been on plenty of first dates.
I say first dates because they have never really gone any further than that. Maybe I’ve just been picky, but there have been plenty of errors made. I thought you guys may appreciate some of the things I’ve come across over disaster dates…
Going to the cinema, for me is the worst first date imaginable. “Hey I really want to get to know you so let’s go sit in a dark room where I can’t talk to you for two hours” Yep great idea, how on earth are you supposed to get to know someone in that situation ???
Now obviously on a first date you end up talking about their job and any plans for the future, and by future I mean like general plan. This does not entitle you to discuss when you want to get married or have kids etc. I went on one date and the guy straight up told me he was looking for someone he could marry. I’m all for commitment and what not, but please, I am 21 the last thing I need to think about right now is marriage !!!
It’s always difficult to understand what someone is going to be like in person, when you have just spent the last few weeks talking to them through social media. But it is fair to say that a face to face meeting is always going to be different. Sometimes first dates can be quite awkward but if there is one thing I cannot stand its someone who talks about themselves constantly. Like we get it you have this kind of fancy car which goes whatever speed that no one cares about, but hey do I look pretty??? if you get me!
I’m no dating expert and it is without question my luck with men is not relevant, but I have been on enough dates now to keep me on the ball!
Do you guys have any dating disasters??