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At this time in my life being 21 years old, a lot changes fast and often.

Just last week I got a new job and only 5 months ago I moved out. My friends are finishing uni, starting new jobs, moving places and getting on with their lives.

As fast as all these changes are happening, the faster I’m having to adapt, but to be perfectly honest change scares me. It’s the fear of what if you don’t like that change, or what if something is done differently to how it’s always been done.

I guess what im trying to say in this frazzled thought path, is that despite being constantly surrounded by changes at this point in our lives, we never adapt, and sometimes, it doesn’t always work out well and people don’t cope with change which leads to anxiety and panic. I am one to constantly worry about life and all that it has to throw, and I know for certain that give it a few years or so and I’ll have nothing to worry about and that will involve bigger changes like relationships and children.

Crikey, maybe I should just go to bed, see change, I went to bed later than normal and my heads broken !!!!

N’night fellow mid life crisis teens…


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    02/06/2018 at 7:59 am

    girl, i hope you feel better! I know change is terrifying (especially when you’re happy where you are like no world let me live pls) but you’ll come out on top xx

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    Invisibly Me
    02/06/2018 at 4:19 pm

    Huge congrats on the job! I struggle with change because of fear, not liking uncertainty, worrying how I’ll cope. And you’re right, sometimes we don’t want to leave what we had behind and sometimes the new change doesn’t work out well. But change is inevitable, and we cope better than we think. All of these changes will open up a new future for you, new paths, new blessings. You can cope better than you may imagine and there will be bright, amazing days ahead! šŸ™‚
    Caz x

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      05/06/2018 at 6:38 pm

      thank you! yes without. doubt your right, we over think what actually ends up being a whole nee benefit for our lives :)x

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    Julia Elizabeth
    05/06/2018 at 9:45 pm

    I can totally relate to this, change is the only constant we ever have in life after all. Best wishes for the coming months ā¤ļø

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    08/06/2018 at 9:12 pm

    I completely agree with this, especially after leaving uni life seems to move at 100 mph – good luck in your new job! xx

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